Go with the flow is not a laid back approach. Go with the flow is the intuitive decoding and tuning into the different elements of the flow.
For example, when you are skilled surfer, you are able to handle all waves. But when you are not skilled, your go with the flow might become a not so pleasant experience! You don’t become a skilled surfer by looking at other surfers or read manuals: you need to practice, practice and practice!
Go with the flow allows to discover the multilayered order of the universe. What initially looks like chaos reveals itself as a complicated order. Go with the flow consists of all different energies of the Now and there is no pick and choose.
In order to discover this complicated order, you need to learn to dance to as many melodies at the same time as possible. When your body becomes an agile and competent vessel, you are able to dance the Now.
Dancing the Now is then creating your Self in the Flow. You add your flow to the Flow. And you realize your Self in the Flow of the Moment.
Go with the flow then becomes the ability to realize your Self in the Now.